Former New England Patriots linebacker Ted Johnson was one of the lucky
ones.
On July 16 the three-time Super Bowl player was arrested in Weston,
Mass. for assaulting his wife. But last Monday Jackie Johnson came
clean: "My husband, I adore him, and, it was my fault. . . . It breaks
my heart to think I would be responsible with one emotional,
irresponsible call in destroying this beautiful man's reputation."
Judge Rucker Smith of Sumter County, Georgia can also thank his lucky
stars.
When he announced his decision to break off a romantic relationship, his
girlfriend bit him fiercely on the leg. Then the woman called the police
to allege that he had attacked her. On May 5, the jury acquitted the
judge of all charges against him.
And let's not forget TV talk show host David Letterman.
Last December Colleen Nestler of Santa Fe, NM claimed that Mr. Letterman
was using mental telepathy, facial gestures, and televised code words to
induce her to move to New York. Judge Daniel Sanchez granted an order
directing Mr. Letterman to cease the harassment. The laughable
injunction was eventually dropped.
But few men have the financial wherewithal of a former NFL player,
sitting judge, or media personality. So when they are accused of
domestic violence, men often find themselves dragged into a legal
machinery that eventually leaves them penniless, disillusioned, and
broken.
Often the false claims are made during an acrimonious divorce or child
custody case.
This past January Wendy Flanders of Lancaster County, PA alleged her
ex-husband acted in a threatening manner towards her, and requested a
restraining order. Unfortunately for her, the whole incident was caught
on surveillance cameras that proved her allegations were a complete
fabrication. Flanders is now charged with making false reports and
criminal conspiracy.
Restraining orders now come a dime a dozen. Each year
2-3 million
restraining orders for domestic violence are issued in the United
States.
And get this - in half the cases, violence is not even alleged. All the
guy has to do is think strange thoughts, make facial gestures, or use
code words - just ask David Letterman.
Many men find the allegations so stigmatizing and humiliating that years
later, they are still afraid to tell their story.
"William" was a Department of Defense sub-contractor with a high level
TS/SCI security clearance who supervised an information security
project. When he broke up with his girlfriend, she retaliated by
claiming abuse. DoD Directive 5220.6 requires that a clearance be
revoked, even on the basis of a mere allegation. As a result William and
the 30 project personnel had to be laid off.
"John," a successful consultant with a six-figure income, filed charges
against his ex-wife after she assaulted him. In turn she requested a
civil restraining order, which served to pre-empt the criminal charges
against her. The civil order was then leaked to Dunn and Bradstreet,
thus destroying the man's reputation and business. A year later the
woman recanted her allegations, saying John had never been physically
abusive.
False allegations of rape are also commonplace, with
one-quarter
of rape claims believed to be a hoax.
Last February Tamara Moonier of Orange County, CA accused six men of
brutally raping her at gunpoint. But a home video showed a laughing
Moonier cheering the men on: "I just like sex, I can't help it!"
If convicted on all counts, the men could have spent the rest of their
lives in prison. But Ms. Moonier faces a maximum sentence of 44 months
for her little white lie.
Which of course brings us to the three Duke U. lacrosse players accused
of raping an exotic dancer. The DNA tests don't match, the pieces of the
story don't add up, and legal experts say the chances of a conviction
are slim to none. But no matter, prosecutor Mike Nifong, who is facing a
tough re-election bid, says he has no plans to drop the case.
Kathy Seligman, mother of one of the accused players, recently told CBS
News, "You just can't imagine what it's like to see someone do this to
your child."
Over 200 years ago, brave American colonists rose up against the
shackles of English tyranny. Their aim was to found a republic based on
laws that enshrine the presumption of innocence, a respect for due
process, and the preservation of civil liberties.
Sometimes the hard lessons of history only can be learned from
first-hand experience.
Carey Roberts has
been published frequently in the Washington Times, Townhall.com,
LewRockwell.com, ifeminists.net, Intellectual Conservative, and
elsewhere. He is a staff reporter for the New Media Alliance.
